tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4859347726001714274.post8770885325914469008..comments2024-03-27T19:38:35.757-07:00Comments on Bag and a Beret: Selling yourself, a life of hyperboleMelaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06218727738029858422noreply@blogger.comBlogger76125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4859347726001714274.post-10097562245381690492016-04-27T10:56:47.987-07:002016-04-27T10:56:47.987-07:00Hey Cousin Becky! Well, I gave a man advice on cha...Hey Cousin Becky! Well, I gave a man advice on changing his hair colour and glasses frames. I styled a fashion show with a couple of women 40+. I don't ACTIVELY promote myself as a stylist, they seem to be a dime a dozen here, so I just try to have fun with style myself and goof off with friends. <br />Thanks, Cousin, for visiting. Wish I had more cookies!Melaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06218727738029858422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4859347726001714274.post-84165348056119141612016-04-27T10:50:33.098-07:002016-04-27T10:50:33.098-07:00Hahaha! Well, Carolyn, you probably don't have...Hahaha! Well, Carolyn, you probably don't have to worry too much about schmoozing because you will have an AGENT or a REP of some kind who will do all that for you. You'll be the one seated behind the table with a new book, signing away furiously, or on the stage (!!) accepting an award. Hahaha! We never know.<br />Thanks for your comment.Melaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06218727738029858422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4859347726001714274.post-13421668245970472712016-04-27T10:49:10.429-07:002016-04-27T10:49:10.429-07:00The key is to hang around the food buffet without ...The key is to hang around the food buffet without looking like you're doing it. Heh. My preferred stance is aloof, mysterious. Pfft. If I don't think about the networking part, there are interesting people around. But the card thing, hahaha! <br />Thanks for visiting, Sue. Melaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06218727738029858422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4859347726001714274.post-29145301901598957662016-04-13T22:15:26.296-07:002016-04-13T22:15:26.296-07:00Wow... I just love your blog! You take the ordina...Wow... I just love your blog! You take the ordinary day and make it into a not so ordinary evening when I read all your fun facts! I truly adore your pitch! What you style older people? Yeah, 40 use to be "older" but now I am there too. Cousin Beckyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01859007376962419911noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4859347726001714274.post-54604847803081746562016-04-03T05:09:34.658-07:002016-04-03T05:09:34.658-07:00Darling, it is the satirical perspective, along wi...Darling, it is the satirical perspective, along with the honesty, the truth, sincerity, integrity... all these words meaning the same, which lead to the success. There is hardly anything in this world which is like that and not commercialized. And people are seeking, no,.. very much longing for this.No Fear of Fashionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10999161414598296313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4859347726001714274.post-84467557459252110782016-04-02T05:39:55.789-07:002016-04-02T05:39:55.789-07:00Firstly, the lighting in your new location is stun...Firstly, the lighting in your new location is stunning. I loved these photos of you.<br /><br />Secondly, I have the same feeling about selling myself. It's slightly less difficult online than it is in person for me, but still awkward. And selling oneself is the difference between failure and success in a lot of modern endeavors.<br /><br />Thirdly, perhaps you should make tampon business cards. Then no one would forget you, and they would also have a useful and meaningful takeaway from the meeting!!!Danielle Ste. Justhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00657911852886541429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4859347726001714274.post-2009912845202117672016-04-01T01:22:35.743-07:002016-04-01T01:22:35.743-07:00Oh my god I totally suck at networking or schmoozi...Oh my god I totally suck at networking or schmoozing or whatever! I'll be the one in the corner sipping the champers and creepily eyeing off everyone's shoes from afar. btw, have I said before how much I ADORE that tartan jacket of yours? your absolute piece de resistance. I think it's the most fabulous thing on the planet.Carolynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03156106727490224625noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4859347726001714274.post-33285723299661088362016-04-01T00:52:43.632-07:002016-04-01T00:52:43.632-07:00I am still laughing at the thought of getting a ta...I am still laughing at the thought of getting a tampon instead of your business card!! Only you can make light of this function networking stuff. I would be utter crap. What do I do? Whatever the hell I want!!!Suehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09315638690434873691noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4859347726001714274.post-63798770490267611672016-04-01T00:06:12.510-07:002016-04-01T00:06:12.510-07:00I know. Yes, cards for blogs. Lots of women use th...I know. Yes, cards for blogs. Lots of women use them. I rarely do, that's why mine are covered with crumbs and little bits I have to dust off before I go out. Then I usually forget to hand them out anyway. Pffft. You need cards, Curtise! Hahaha!! I'd be good at networking if I had something meaty to network about. <br />Oh well. The blogger meetup was excellent. I'm glad you had a great time at your recent one too. Thanks for dropping by, Curtise. I know how busy you are!Melaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06218727738029858422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4859347726001714274.post-27205640577906815432016-04-01T00:02:51.656-07:002016-04-01T00:02:51.656-07:00You always look so put together, I mean, really pu...You always look so put together, I mean, really put together, in the best way, sophisticated with cool edge. So I'm surprised to hear that you are not good at the schmooze. Just goes to show you never know, right? <br />I love your Shoe and Tell even if I can't promise to make it over. But thanks for the invitation and for dropping by. Melaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06218727738029858422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4859347726001714274.post-22087677731709634272016-03-31T23:59:03.272-07:002016-03-31T23:59:03.272-07:00Yes, I'd say I break out in a cold sweat but t...Yes, I'd say I break out in a cold sweat but that would be untrue: it's frankly sticky and stinky and staining and horrific. Definitely not cold! I've tried the naked visioning but everyone looks so boring naked. Ah, but maybe that's the point! I'll try again. I love your suggestion. <br />I love hearing from you here. Thanks for visiting!Melaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06218727738029858422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4859347726001714274.post-69107334111090291852016-03-31T23:56:44.744-07:002016-03-31T23:56:44.744-07:00Rosalind, how do you do it? I know you have attend...Rosalind, how do you do it? I know you have attended tons of fashion functions and schmooze-type events and awards shows. Do you drink a lot? Smack 'em with your smarts? Your outfits? All of the above. Anyway, I am glad you're getting this talent under your belt already. It will last a lifetime. Hurrah! <br />Thanks for your comment!Melaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06218727738029858422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4859347726001714274.post-80923905121376275302016-03-31T23:54:46.421-07:002016-03-31T23:54:46.421-07:00I keep diving into that slimy oyster pit and come ...I keep diving into that slimy oyster pit and come up with no pearls and grit in my teeth. Actually, I think I scare people at functions. <br />But thanks so much for your compliments, Judith. They mean a lot.Melaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06218727738029858422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4859347726001714274.post-89815960063044910562016-03-31T23:51:34.156-07:002016-03-31T23:51:34.156-07:00I love how you introduce your blog! Hahaha. We'...I love how you introduce your blog! Hahaha. We'd freak people out if we introduced our blogs at the same time. Dork is the new cool. Yes, I did meet some very cool people too but it's hard. Thanks for the encouragement and compliment, especially on my jacket. I love it to bits.<br />Love to see you always, Ms. Allnut!Melaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06218727738029858422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4859347726001714274.post-45341325494021223352016-03-31T22:48:56.851-07:002016-03-31T22:48:56.851-07:00People really have business cards? To promote thei...People really have business cards? To promote their blogs? Who knew? Oh dear, the idea of a networking function makes me feel a bit ill... But the giant pants, both visions, are wonderful, so I feel instantly better! <br />Good that you had the chance to meet up with Sheila again. XxxCurtisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10362184504889147455noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4859347726001714274.post-1885033089661314462016-03-31T19:45:11.577-07:002016-03-31T19:45:11.577-07:00You took the thoughts right out of my mouth. Netw...You took the thoughts right out of my mouth. Networking, meet and greets, etc. I'm not good at. It doesn't come naturally to me either and so glad to read your wonderful post. I love how you write - so refreshing and funny. And, I love both outfits, especially that green blouse - gorgeous! <br />Make sure to link up with my Monday link up - SHOE AND TELL, not just for shoes. You always have such great shoes and outfits to go with them! <br /><br />Cherie<br />http://www.stylenudge.com<br />STYLE NUDGEcherie at stylenudge.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02494163575902707580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4859347726001714274.post-29872802004971978232016-03-31T14:38:20.023-07:002016-03-31T14:38:20.023-07:00The very word, 'networking' brings me out ...The very word, 'networking' brings me out in a double dose of hives. Gah, people just can't be people any more - we all have to BE someone and someone preferably BIG and IMPORTANT. I used to work in events and it was a nightmare all that schmoozing. I just use to imagine everyone was naked. Helped. Only sometimes I'd end up chortling at totally the wrong moment as I imagine some stuffy bigwig I was talking to was in their all together!<br />I shall enjoy reading your post and Sheila's about your gathering - so much more entertaining I can imagine than networking even if the buffets are good!<br /><br />http://petitesilvervixen.blogspot.co.uk/Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12140833533512536372noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4859347726001714274.post-77960116662192000262016-03-31T12:59:19.613-07:002016-03-31T12:59:19.613-07:00I always enjoy the comments on your posts as much ...I always enjoy the comments on your posts as much as the downright bloody excellent posts themselves. Doubled over chortling twice here - first reading your tales and trials of the dreaded networking guff and fluff, second, reading Suzanne's comment: business cards on panty liners. Oh my, now that IS a purely genius idea.Rosalindhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11916652711513095607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4859347726001714274.post-66889437687458093732016-03-31T07:18:41.583-07:002016-03-31T07:18:41.583-07:00You get better with every post. These photos are ...You get better with every post. These photos are breathtaking. You don't need to schmooze. You have built it and "they" will come. Between your ensembles, your brilliant sense of humor and your writing, "the world is your oyster!"The Style Cronehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03760710805926873206noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4859347726001714274.post-67502590219884452792016-03-31T04:24:11.180-07:002016-03-31T04:24:11.180-07:00mwahaha, you're a star of communication and I&...mwahaha, you're a star of communication and I'm going to steal all your phrases when introducing myself when attending an event. Yes, it would sound way better than saying that I have a crappy funny blog about my own fashion ideas as a Plus sized 40+ Crazy Lady. Socially awkward as I am, I've met some really interesting people at posh events, so I don't give up!<br />I'm loving your überfabulous palazzo pants, and your chartreuse blouse and big earrings, and you look absolutely stunning wearing your revamped tartan jacket: that's a magnificent creation, and you must be Proud of it!!<br />besos & risasSeñora Allnuthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01403540346998939207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4859347726001714274.post-74218613000616969952016-03-30T21:31:04.368-07:002016-03-30T21:31:04.368-07:00Hahaha, Kezzie, you may not identify yourself as a...Hahaha, Kezzie, you may not identify yourself as a schmoozer but you can command the attention of dozens if not hundreds of students, and you play and sing in front of huge audiences, even royalty! THAT would make me nervous. Heh.<br />I should think of stories before I go to these things; they'd help in a pinch.<br />Thanks for visiting, Kezzie.Melaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06218727738029858422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4859347726001714274.post-57770917256905983672016-03-30T21:28:13.962-07:002016-03-30T21:28:13.962-07:00Oh Beate -
That's incredible! What a wonderfu...Oh Beate - <br />That's incredible! What a wonderful lineup of all the magnificent things women have added to the skirt along its journey. I must link it to the gallery, if you don't mind. Thank you for doing this!!Melaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06218727738029858422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4859347726001714274.post-35960939218039460322016-03-30T21:27:09.131-07:002016-03-30T21:27:09.131-07:00At least at your booth you have a booth between yo...At least at your booth you have a booth between you and Them. I suppose I have napkin of food but it doesn't carry the same weight. <br />Thanks for your comment!Melaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06218727738029858422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4859347726001714274.post-18999422910559144432016-03-30T15:26:15.044-07:002016-03-30T15:26:15.044-07:00I can't do schmooze at all! I am so awkward it...I can't do schmooze at all! I am so awkward it is untrue!!! I can tell boring anecdotes though that clutch at any slight straw offered when nervous!!! Wish I didn't get nervous!<br />You are hideously successful and cool. That is all!!!<br />x<br />(hideously wasn't meant in a bad way, it just seemed a good adverb!!!)xKezziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15705356707599121605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4859347726001714274.post-44027772190041836272016-03-30T01:07:25.374-07:002016-03-30T01:07:25.374-07:00lately i saw on a "advise blog" that paj...lately i saw on a "advise blog" that pajama-style is on trend this spring..... uuuupppssss ;-)<br />hugs! xxxxbahnwärterinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02032478343344432338noreply@blogger.com